The
Foolishness Of Man
on
the care and feeding of children
Glenys Hicks
When I was born there
was a philosophy of child raising influenced by
a whole network of Maternal Welfare Centres in
Australia under the umbrella of Dr Truby King.
In this teaching, the newborn was "trained" to
be fed every 4 hours on the dot, allowed to cry
inconsolably when hungry yet allowed to run wild
in the developing years. One did not want to
hurt their little psyches by spanking or
scolding.
My mother remembers
only too well her niece who was sucking on her
fingers and screaming for a feed but whose
mother would let her scream until the clock said
it was time for the next feed! She was a strict
follower of the Truby King regime. By the time
the baby was offered the breast (which was
swollen with milk that would gush down the
child's throat), she was usually too exhausted
to suckle well and if she did, would be full of
colic from all the crying.
My cousin grew up a
chronic thumbsucker and a lonely and unhappy
child. But a child who was allowed complete
freedom- even to tap dancing on the top of her
mother's white Queen Ann dressing table! At a
time when a newborn should be taught to trust in
a big world, and then how to love and form a
deep abiding bond with its mother or carer, it
was deprived of not only food but comfort! It
learnt to be anxious and distrustful and
unloving!
But at an age where the
personality was developing and training could
commence, the child was allowed full vent to
emotion and desires and was allowed to run wild.
These poor children were taught that instant
gratification, disrespect of authority, people
and their possessions and ultimate selfishness
were their right. There were no boundaries and
the child was unhappy and isolated. Parents of
children being trained in the niceties and
values of normal living rightfully didn't want
their own children associating with them.
Ultimately, Truby King
bred a generation of unhappy adults who knew
nothing but self indulgence and that anarchy
does indeed rule. How sad! How very contrary to
God's way of raising children! I do not know
what became of Dr Truby King perhaps he has
passed on- but the legacy he has passed on to
countless adults brought up under his spartan
regime is appalling. How different these
teachings are to the gentle rearing of our
children under the admonition of the scriptures!
How my heart yearns to be able to go back in
time and comfort and feed the many infants
starving for hours and fretting and to direct
and gently guide the little children brought up
under the teaching of these people! Yet many
sincere and genuinely loving parents thought
they were doing what was best for their
children- unfortunately, they followed after the
foolishness of man and against the knowledge of
the Most High God.
I was fortunate to have
a sensible God-fearing mother, but thousands
weren't. It makes you wonder how each turned out
as an adult doesn't it?
© Glenys Robyn Hicks
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