Making Your Husband Chief Among Ten
Thousand…
rekindling the passion
It
is a medical fact that our brain is our greatest sexual
organ. Desire starts there. When the body is tired and
intimacy seems like one more 'chore' before blessed
sleep, I have found that it
helps
to dwell on what made you fall in love with your husband
in the first place. Bring to mind all the little things
he said or did that spoke to you in your early days
together. Remember how he looked, how he smelled... his
aftershave, even his sweat and the smoothness of his
skin, his eyes, his voice. Remember too the intimate
moments you shared in the past and let them intoxicate
you again with rekindled love for your man.
Cultivate a thankful heart for being his wife and look
forward to celebrating that oneness in the beauty of the
marital bed. True intimacy is not what is shown in
pornography. Under no circumstances focus on other
people's intimacy...you want to foster desire for your
own husband's embrace. As you dwell on your husband's
desirability, more often than not, your mind will start
pining for his embrace. This god-given desire usually is
stronger than tiredness.
The
Shulamite in the Song of Songs fantasized about her
husband's body and eagerly looked forward to his
lovemaking..there certainly is a place for fantasizing
about intimacy with your husband. I find that by
thinking of all the wonderful things about my spouse,
and dwelling on them, that I can overcome chronic
fatigue (through illness) and eagerly await intimacy
with him. I believe that this is a great way to help
overcome fatigue and lack of desire without sinning..
Take a look at the Song of Solomon and rekindle the
flame.
Glenys
Robyn Hicks
‘My
beloved is white and ruddy, Chief among ten thousand.’
Song of Solomon 5:10
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