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This is my blography - simply my personal thoughts; this blog is just a small part or purpose of this website. The chief aim of this site is to bring glory to God and good food of His Word to families.  May each visit fill you with fresh bread and lingering words to savor. 
Someday maybe my children will read "mama's blog" and catch a glimpse of some of what was "important" each day, "snap-shots" of the day, what was going on in the world and what really stirred up some of my thoughts.  Whatever is "documented" here will pale in comparison to the importance of their lives to me:  really, my husband, my children —they are my story — they are my legacy. 

So... I'm a believer, a follower of Jesus Christ, my LORD and because of Him, I'm a help-meet for my husband, the mother of eleven children and a daughter-in-law and happy gramma to three.  I share slices of life because of what God is doing and has done --- and with the hope of being an encouragement to others to press on toward the mark (Philippians  3.14)

Some days I find it difficult to escape to the quiet area to write.  But, it is on those days I am most likely perfecting domestic skills or the craft of being a keeper at home.

But that's one of my life goals after all... that of being a quintessential keeper at home and all it connotes.

Would that it be said of me in my home and of you in yours:

Proverbs 31.28-30  "Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.  Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all.  Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised."

I've not "arrived," but in the course of following and serving the LORD Jesus, and being a help meet for my husband, that's where I'm headed.
 

A few pages on this site:
Guestbook
Prayer Requests
 
adoption
see ways you can help
Woman To Woman
The Welcome Home
 
 
 
dear-to-me Blogs 
I try to read at least every couple of days
:
in no particular order
no particular agenda;
some thoughts might
surprise the reader,

some might astonish;
but all inform.
 
Choosing Home OurThreePennies
 
 
 
 
I'd probably link to
Phil Johnson's stuff
but... which would I choose
to post here?
 
(as always... my disclaimer: 

As with any link on our site:  we don't necessarily endorse everything that's said and, of course we don't endorse every link that may be posted on a site. 
As Sarg (hillstreetblues)
used to say: Be careful out there!
 
Political:
 
I've been reading:
♥ The Bible
♥ too many BLOGS!!!!
♥ The Mommy Manual
   by Barbara Curtis
♥ Diary of Private Prayer
  -John Baillie
(read regularly)
 
These are a few of the  places we regularly visit on the Net!

eBay
worldnetdaily
Drudge Report
 
 
 
 
A few websites...
(I have more to add when time allows)

Verse For Loving Hearts 
Glenys Robyn Hicks writes quality Christian verse for all occasions. 'Verse For Loving Hearts' is a home-based business in Melbourne Australia, offering a compassionate and confidential service for expressions of heartfelt emotion... personalized house plaques, words for greeting cards, in fact, anything at all that you need to express..  
examples of glenys work

cmomb.com
Christian Moms of Many Blessings

parentingwithpurpose


Titus 2.3-5
The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,
To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.

oikourov
oikouros, oy-koo-ros'

from 3624 and ouros
(a guard; be "ware");
a stayer at home, i.e. domestically inclined
(a "good housekeeper"):
--a keeper at home.

Hence this blog:
Views and slices of life; and thoughts,
 between sips of coffee,
 of a quintessential keeper at home 

 
 
CURRENT MOON
moon info

 

I'll be Seeing You

I'll be seeing you
in all the old
familiar places
That this heart
of mine embraces
all day through
In that small café,
the park
across the way
The children's carousel,
the chestnut trees,
the wishing well

I'll be seeing you in
every lovely
summer's day
In everything
that's light and gay
I'll always think of you
that way

I'll find you in
the mornin' sun
And when
the night is new
I'll be looking
at the moon
But I'll be seeing you



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Considering the devastation in the Southern USA, are you wondering how in this nation you can help?  Here you go: Operation Save America

  • Salvation Army is helping... you, can too.

  • PRAY for the people who've been affected by the devastation of Hurricane Katrina.

  • Pray for the relief efforts---humanitarian aid and financial assistance for the region.

  • Pray for the salvation of the lost and for the people of this nation to turn to the LORD.

  • Read a great interview with Barbara Curtis in The Choosing Home's September Newsletter.

  • Slice of Laodicea has more links and articles than you'll likely have time to read--great site.

  • You can't help but wonder about the timing and location of the hurricane.  
    Was it an act of God?
     

The Welcome Home Blogger is on a vacation, of sorts, for a bit.   While spending the next week or so with my family, I'll be seeking the LORD for His direction and I'd like to spend some time working through a bunch of notes I've been scribbling and turn them into some articles and messages.  So, since you're reading this:  God bless you and your families ---  and thanks for your encouragement and prayers.  I'm so grateful for these and so many other things.  All God's ways are good.


welcome home, little one.
Our friend's new little son peering out the window above Seattle just before sunset.

Wes took this picture of our friend's boy so that one day they'd be able to show it to him when his life story is recounted.  It was a precious time and an honour for Wes that he'll never forget. He says he'd love to go again and escort other children to their new family/homes in the US. He's marvelous with children and steadfastly trusts in the LORD enabling him to serve in that way. I sure ache for Wes when he tells the stories of the little orphans and he cries when he mentions little Olivia.  A piece of his heart is there---and yet, he knows that that scene is repeated over and over throughout the continent of Africa and elsewhere in the world.  He's quick to avoid over-romanticizing the situation because he knows that emotions really do get in the way of clear perception and direction. 

He's been asked now if he thinks he wants to go back.  He smiles, he's filled with emotion---I can tell he cannot "unsee" what he's seen.  I know him, in that that he doesn't let sentimentality  dictate his decisions or emotions because, I guess he sees, as in other things, that there are situations there we can do little or nothing about.  We wait on the LORD and seek to obey His known commands.  He thinks/I think that's all anyone should do.   I guess think it's dangerous to get caught up in things He hasn't directed or doing things just because others do. It's romantic and sweet---------but God leads people in different ways on different paths.  I don't mean different paths to salvation----there is only One; but different paths in life... life work, locations, etc.

 


PS:  Thanks, Timothy, for the good long talk. bless you----- ;o)

People are stealing things right and left from places in NewOrleans---I guess, thinking that either they or others will want what they stole.  I marvel---------water, water everywhere and not a drop to drink.  Think of all that's underwater and where it'll all end up------------------then consider, for those for whom this isn't actually affecting them directly, what people really want from that area is gasoline.  More gasoline!

 

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comments: Pam, Thank you so much for sharing your heart of gratefulness. It brought me to tears. Though my "journey" yesterday was so much smaller in the grand scheme of things I am blessed to share in your thankfulness. Aaron started back to school yesterday, which is a huge answer to prayer as a week ago he found out the school had dropped him from all his classes and taken back his scholarship etc. It's a long story but God is worthy of our trust. He has provided beyond what we thought possible. Aaron began yesterday his final year in seminary and he was able to re-register with all the same classes at the same times. We have been humble as we questioned whether we were really listening to His voice and following His leading and He has picked us up and set us back firmly on course. God is faithful. What a blessing it is, as you know so well, to have a godly husband who follows the Lord! Thank you for sharing your praises~ Emily
 

Em, I hadn't read your mail when I wrote the above. And I know you're commenting on what I'd written yesterday but I sure am amazed at how God is working.   And no, no, nothing is too small or insignificant!   And, yes----what He is going for you is significant and is beneficial for the rest of the body to hear---all God's ways are good and His ways are higher than our ways.  So... I rejoice with you for He is blessing and guiding and writing your story.  I share it here so that others can see that even when seemingly disappointing things happen, the LORD is working---working on our behalf to show Himself strong on the behalf of those whose hearts are turned toward Him.  Thanks for sharing that encouraging letter.  YES! He is faithful. 

 
comments: Pamela, I am so thankful that Wes and Troy made it home safely with the children! I was able to feel the emotions you were experiencing when you say you were so alone at night- yet not alone! That's how I felt when Chris was in hospital. And to see your beloved in the column of passengers as if in slow-motion-yet you can pick out your beloved! As I can recognize mine! It is like reading a love story- which it is! A real love story! I used to think it was just for romantic novels and films; now I know it is real and we both have experienced it in all its splendour! Blessed be the LORD for He is Love! And praise Him for giving us both men who have shown us that depth of true love. A beautiful account of Wes's return. Thank you for sharing it! Misty-eyed, Glenys
 

I understand what you mean, Glenys.  Yes---God is the author and finisher of our faith and He is the author of love stories, too!  Lots of different love stories---lover's stories, family stories, friend's stories, His story of salvation and heaven and all that's in between.  The young couple---Emily, who wrote above... that's another love story that God's been writing out.  Our friend's who've now enlarged the circle of their family with the two Liberian--now American :o) boys---that's another love story.  I'm sappy enough to have playing in the background right now... and I'm singing along.... ahem, ahem... (Louis Armstrong)  "... and I think to myself... what a wonderful world."


I see trees of green, red roses too
I see them bloom for me and you
And I think to myself what a wonderful world.

I see skies of blue and clouds of white
The bright blessed day, the dark sacred night
And I think to myself what a wonderful world.

The colors of the rainbow so pretty in the sky
Are also on the faces of people going by
I see friends shaking hands saying how do you do
They're really saying I love you.

I hear babies cry, I watch them grow
They'll learn much more than I'll never know
And I think to myself what a wonderful world
Yes I think to myself what a wonderful world.


August 31, 2005    

Another day, another thought


With the enormity of the devastation in the southern US and the long term effects of loss of life, damage to homes and businesses and to the infrastructure of the city of New Orleans and surrounding suburbs, almost all other news pales in comparison.  And yet, something I've learned over the years is that no matter how big someone else's problem or situation is, whatever "big thing" one is facing at the moment is just as important.  I had a friend sort of teach me that some time ago.  When asked how I was doing (as was the case many times in that season of my life, I was nearing the birth of another child) and I felt awkward replying to her knowing that she, herself, was dealing with years of chronic illness and accompanying pain.  So, I always felt rather foolish 'complaining" of, or even mentioning, my deals at the time.  But she shared with me that whatever is person is feeling at the time is big to hem.  And so it has been over the years... I've been able to realize that no matter how great or insignificant a circumstance happens to be for whoever it's happening to, that event is: big. 

 New Orleans is under water------------it's nothing and everything at once.  I considered our friends today... assimilating two new members into the family---they've just come from terrific pain, poverty and disease.  It's nothing and everything at once.  They're in a new home, new family, new city, new country---a whole new life story has just begun.  Their former life is nothing and everything.  New Orleans is under water and I am considering what our friends have to be doing... to teach little ones where to lie down and go to the potty and  how to obey(!) and how to stay in the yard and get along with new brothers and sisters.   Everything that's happening is big to the people it's happening to.  To most everyone else, it's nothing---though it's everything at the time to someone else.  Interesting how life goes. 

A year ago I would never have thought this is how this last day of August would be spent.
It's a whole new view.  But nothing and everything changes.
 


August 30, 2005    

The Journey... a time to rejoice

My home is quiet.  The grandchildren are safely back at their home, our children are safely tucked in bed in our home and more:  sweeter this than any other thing: my husband is safely home... very well, very tired, very emotional and now, sound to sleep.  I came out here to the sun room and no, it isn't sunny in here at all, but this is where my desk is and where my view of everything from the willow tree outside the windows beside me to my window-to-the-world through the screen in front of me. 

I needed to come out here to spend some time alone... to be quiet, to pray and thank the LORD.  The LORD has answered my prayers---my husband is home and our children have been able to each hug daddy and praise the LORD with me.  We were able to witness what we never could have imagined.  Never could we have envisioned what we experienced today.

I saw him far off---I can see him in any crowd; it was surreal.  In the bright long corridor, as though in slow motion,  in the long procession of passengers, they appeared to be walking alone as if out of a battle---a battle of time and fatigue and emotion, there emerged our friend, Troy, and my husband each holding a Liberian toddler---one sleeping, one bleary eyed.  None of us will ever know what that journey really entailed.  A war rages in the middle east, a hurricane pounds and destroys the southern coastline, poverty and disease ravage the lands of millions of souls and yet---for that brief period of time it seemed to be sort of the culmination of a triumphal journey.  I hugged my husband --- crying; relieved and joyful and amazed.  And then I was overwhelmed to see our friend the new mother of this boy so tenderly take her new son into her arms.  Safely home.  Her other son, too: safely home.  Her husband, safely home.  I know to some, I might be going to the extreme----but even to all the others: our friends and family who were gathered, it was a poignant moment.  We were all gripped with emotion and filled with thanks.  One journey had ended; another journey has just begun.  We were there to witness both and I guess, that's what I don't ever want to forget.

I thank and praise the God who sees: my El Roi; the LORD who has seen me in my low estate and lifted me up and set me on a Rock---the LORD who saw those little boys and lifted them up; the LORD who saw the men and gave them strength.  I thank and praise my Jehovah Nissi: the LORD our banner; for it was of the LORD that my husband was away---that our friend was away,  and in the name of the LORD they went and returned and the LORD was the banner over  them and surely was the banner over us.  I thank and praise Jehovah Jireh: for He alone is our provider.  He is our sustainer and strength.  He demonstrated Himself strong on the behalf of those whose hearts were turned to Him and He provided a way---for the orphan boys in Liberia... a way of escape---a hope and a future; shelter and provision as He promised to provide---and more than hope: blessed Hope.

Because I have been too busy each day but very much alone at night and for some reason unable to sleep, I feel as though I've been in a "night valley."  Very alone, but never alone.  Each day I marveled at God's presence and provision.  I marveled at the gamut of emotion.  

I thank and praise my LORD, El Elyon: the Most High God Sovereign over all.  psalm 91 has been my prayer and my meditation all the days... I see this more, now:  " Because he hath set his love upon me, therefore will I deliver him: I will set him on high, because he hath known my name. "  Psalm 91.14
He had indeed given His angels charge over us all to keep us in all our ways.  Whenever I called upon Him, he heard me and delivered me.  I did dwell in the secret place of the most high and did abide under the shadow of the Almighty.  He did cover me and I under His wings I did trust.   My friend trusted the LORD with and for her family just as I trusted Him with and for mine. 

Two men.  One journey.  Two missions---but One purpose.  I think of all this tonight.  Our story ends here.  My husband is safely home... resting after being on the go for 46 hours.  He is home, this journey ends.  And then I consider our friends.  Troy... home, likely resting after being on the go for 46 hours.  He is home and now their journey begins. 

I am so thankful tonight.  So grateful to God---grateful that I know Him---grateful that He is so merciful.  My all in all.   I take the cup of salvation and say: O, thank you.   and, again I pray to the Most High God... as we sang on Sunday, I sing this now:

Take my life and let it be
Consecrated Lord to thee
Take my hands and let them move
At the impulse of Thy love
At the impulse of Thy love

Take my feet and let them be
Swift and beautiful for Thee
Take my voice and let me sing
Always only for my King
Always only for my King

Take my lips and let them be
Filled with messages for Thee
Take my silver and my gold
Not a mite would I withhold
Not a mite would I withhold

Take my love, my God I pour
At Thy feet its treasure store
Take myself and I will be
Ever only all for Thee
Ever only all for Thee

Take my life and let it be
Consecrated Lord to Thee
Take myself and I will be
Ever, only, all for Thee
Ever, only, all for Thee

 

And maybe some pictures.  After while.  Now it's time to rest.  Here are a few links that might be of interest if you are wondering about adoption or about helping with the  work in Liberia and elsewhere.

http://www.wacsn.org  West African Children Support Network
http://www.acresofhope.com/  Acres of Hope
http://acfinet.org   African Children Fellowship International


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August 29, 2005    

It's anniversary time again...

and we are blessed to be able to watch the grandchildren as Daniel surprised Tara by taking her to   Leavenworth for their seventh anniversary.   We love to go there---even driving through is a sweet experience---it's nice to see the dramatic seasonal changes in the surrounding area.   Attention to detail and authenticity make the Bavarian village a real treat to visit and look around.  There're many lovely places --hotels, B & B's, etc., to stay and great authentic places to dine, too,  and I imagine it's made even more special to Tara because it reminds her of Germany, where her mothers' family lives.  I love to eat at a fabulous authentic Mexican food place there----I know, I know... authentic Bavarian.  Wha...?

Well, speaking of Mexican---and I was ;-)  the other night I was saying to Timothy---too bad you don't have any horchatta and he exclaimed, "O, you don't know, you don't know! I found some!"  It seems that Timothy has found a place on Catalina that sells horchatta (sweet rice water) in half gallon containers.  He told me he drinks it all the time.  He was missing Mexico something fierce, but finding the horchatta was very satisfying to him---even still, I imagine he'd still like to be heading to South America---but alas, he suffers on the boat at Catalina.  He says it's tough, but someone has to do it.  ;-)

 

What in the world is the time?


...that's just what I was wondering when I was studying Wes's itinerary for his travel home.  Little dolly was weeping for daddy to come home and the others were wondering just how long it would take.  So I visited the Time and Date  site to figure out that he was seven hours ahead in Liberia, but is now nine hours ahead in Brussels, and that he'll be two hours ahead in Chicago---and, well, right on time here tonight!!

A cuppa antioxidants, please


I just knew I felt better Sunday morning after drinking the Starbuck's mocha Kathryn brought home for me.  Little did I know that the cuppa coffee was not simply emotional uplifting, but packed a health benefit, too.  You know me... I'll make these necessary sacrifices for healthy living!  So, here you go... go ahead and gulp down your barleygreen-wheatgrass-spirulina green-drink and then be sure and get your antioxidants from Starbuck's;  now coffee is  supposedly rich in antioxidants.  I chuckled as I read that---especially considering that dark chocolate has also boasts health benefits, Starbuck's stock probably just shot up.   And speaking of prices shooting up---wow! gasoline over $70 per barrel!  Yikes!  Filling the tank is going to get pretty exciting at this rate.  But isn't it funny:  I occasionally pay $3. for 16 ounces of coffee---really a party in a cup---and really don't balk that much, but I get pretty worried about paying $3. per gallon of gas.  Reality really strikes home when I consider that I'll balk at paying $3. a gallon for gasoline and yet, a Starbuck's mocha costs $24. a gallon.   Bet the thought of that makes Howard Schultz smile.  All the way to the bank.

 


 

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August 28, 2005    

 

Hey Timothy!  We're missing you!
 

 

   Here's a slice for you---we missed you at the fair!
 


Kathryn, Samuel and Hannah had been
working out at Camp Gilead this past week.


Larissa and Hannah at the Fair last night.
Yummy!  Blue cotton candy mouths!


Glad to have a few of the olders back home.  Missing our daddy.  No mails from him tonight. 

Received this mail today... gives you a glimpse of the heart of a daddy and the anguish of being in Liberia.     This, from our friend:

"All -
Words cannot describe this country's poverty.  It is only made bearable by the smiles and laughter of those children around us. It's been  a long day due to the extreme humidity, the death of the little lamb,
the other baby that is now in the Firestone hospital and the other sick babies.  We've heard another little lamb is burning up. The doctors didn't know how the first one died...    [-snip-]  ...Please pray for:

1. The other baby to be released from the Firestone hospital so it can make it out of the country. This climate has got to just breed disease due to the temperature, humidity, no clean water, etc.
2. The other children would all behave well. Pray the intestinal systems would hold out.
3. We all get on the plane tomorrow.
4. Strength for Ernest who is an amazing man who keeps this place, 3 orphanages, 4 feeding areas and some more stuff that I couldn't really pick out from the pigeon English of others. He has 63 workers under his guidance.
5. Wes / Troy - Patience, humor and strength by the bucketfuls.

Thank you dear Saints. Troy"

 


August 27, 2005    

I knew my husband would face grief and heartache, that he would be stretched greatly in the very short stay in Liberia, I knew it would grip his heart to face the trials we'd already heard about... but I was unprepared to read his first 'broadcast' email home... this first portion confirmed to me a bit of why he is there.  I know some are wondering why he'd do this---I know---but he just had to go...

From Wes...

i don't know how much time i've got, but i'll type as long as i have and then see what/when i can again.

it's about 7am, their time, sat. morn., and most of us are up. the latest thing around here is that another family from iowa, who we met last night, has just found out that one of their sick babies has died
in the night.    and i was just told by the owner of this laptop i'm borrowing to send this out, that he and ernest (the 'director' of sorts around here) and probably the family need now to go down town to the 'office' and bring the baby in to certify it's dead. this young mid/late 30's family has 5 children of their own at home, and is here to adopt 4 more, two young girls <5, and the two babies. i guess the staff are struggling to know what to do since the other baby is also quite sick with the same thing.

I read further, still trying to take in what I'd just read...

everything has gone real well. where i thought i should be concerned about the airlines bringing us in here, they were actually far more professional, kind and generous than american air!!! even though we
were in the econo class, the treatment was really deluxe! flight went as usual, and we've had very little turbulence.  touched down on this air field, and boy, you could sure tell we had entered a more primitive area.  the "airport" really looked like something you'd see in one of those movies detailing african poverty, cuz it seemed to be crumbling while we stood there. once outside, we noted the building next door, 3 stories, was only a shell, like something under construction that only had the posts and floors up. well, on the second level, there were sandbags piled up and a machine gun placement with a couple UN guys manning it. i got pictures of the airport from the plane, but didn't have my camera out until we got off the property.

And then, a description of their ride to their accommodations...

a young, good looking guy named fred met us and guided us through, first 'entry'/visa inspection, and then waiting for our bags, which all came through just fine. then another guy helped us load them on a cart, and then we were just whisked around customs and out the door. we got in a van and a couple other guys took off, and i sure was wondering what was next since fred was no longer with us. turns out these guys were taking us somewhere, so off and down the only paved road in the country (i think) ending up after about 20 min. in a town i think was monrovia.  nice straight road, but we did have to slow from 50mph to 2mph occasionally to go over some potholes in the road. i think they had to tear a spot out to fix a small bridge, and so the repair was dirt, quite prone to potholes. that happened lots of times. the rest of the times, the problems were more related to one side of the road, so we just drove on the other side, hoping the oncoming cars would wait for us. actually, our driver, an older man, was very cautious, honking when we were within a couple hundred feet of a pedestrian who was also
using the road, and especially honking at all oncoming cars. lots of times debris was strewn in t